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I call this meeting to order.
Welcome to meeting number nine of the Standing Committee on the Status of Women. I recognize that some people are still taking their seats, but my opening remarks should give them enough time.
Pursuant to Standing Order 108(2) and the motion adopted on Tuesday, February 1, the committee will resume its study of intimate partner and domestic violence in Canada.
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Before we welcome our witnesses, I would like to provide this trigger warning. We will be discussing experiences related to violence and assault. This may be triggering to viewers with similar experiences. If you feel distressed or if you need help, please advise the clerk. Thank you very much.
I want to let you know, because we are starting a few minutes late, we will be proceeding longer to make sure we get as much time with the witnesses as possible. We will be going longer and past our time to achieve this. I will be messing around a bit today so we stay on top.
I would like to introduce our first panel for today. We have, from the Battered Women’s Support Services, Angela Marie MacDougall, who is the executive director. From Possibility Seeds, we have Farrah Khan, who is the executive director. From the South Asian Women's Centre, we have Kripa Sekhar, executive director.
I will be providing you each five minutes to give your opening comments. In the last minute, I will be putting up a little sign that reads “one minute”.
We are going to pass the floor over now to Angela for five minutes.
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Thank you very much, and thank you to the committee for this opportunity to speak with you today.
My name is Angela Marie MacDougall. I am the executive director of Battered Women's Support Services, also known as BWSS, and I am so honoured to be here on behalf of our wonderful team of volunteers, staff, leadership, board of directors and, most definitely, the 18,000 victims and survivors who access our services annually.
We are an organization focused on ending violence that takes action through community-based interventions. As well, we provide direct services for victims and survivors of a range of gender- and relationship-based violence, including intimate partner violence and sexualized violence. Our work extends into education and training as well as a number of different activities that we do on education and prevention. Our efforts also involve legal advocacy, community legal education and law reform wherever the law intersects with gender-based violence. Our research and policy work examine root causes. We're always looking for solutions to address GBV, gender-based violence, and intimate partner violence.
As a regional organization based here in metro Vancouver, British Columbia, also known as the traditional territory of the Squamish, Musqueam and Tsleil-Waututh people, BWSS has had the opportunity to hear from our communities about the similarities and disparities in services and supports all across British Columbia and in Canada.
My remarks today are to examine the deeper dimensions of the impacts of intimate partner violence and gender-based violence. As our founding women recognized, intimate partner violence takes place not only between two individuals in isolation but rather in a social context and within a world view that systemically reinforces the power of some people to oppress others.
We echo the most excellent recommendations that have already been put forward to the committee in previous sessions. We want to underline and emphasize that previous witnesses have recognized the need for a whole-of-government, cross-sectoral and cross-jurisdictional approach to addressing gender-based violence. This approach could be accomplished through a national action plan on violence against women and gender-based violence.
We are one of the over 40 organizations and advocates that contributed to the development of the road map for the national action plan, and as co-chair for the “support for survivors and their families pillar”, I want to really emphasize the important work, the road map, which I understand the committee has received from Women’s Shelters Canada. We want to urge the committee to promote timely action on resourcing the implementation of the national action plan and the over 100 recommendations that have already been set out in the report.
While this is an important framework that gives us an opportunity to really tackle the root causes of gender-based violence and to lessen the systemic inequities that allow gender-based violence to continue unabated, I want to emphasize today some crosscutting recommendations and areas in particular that I think we should focus our work on.
As you probably know, today is the day after March 21, which is the International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination. At BWSS, we serve all survivors, including trans and cis survivors. However, today I wish to make visible the experiences of indigenous, Black, newcomer, immigrant/refugee and racialized survivors so that we understand and are thinking about the ways in which anti-violence service provision, advocacy and government policy can centre the very unique realities for survivors.
Every day during the pandemic we have been witness to the escalating racism that indigenous, Black, Asian, Muslim and other racialized communities, especially racialized women and gender-diverse people, experience. We ask the committee to better understand and raise awareness of the experiences of indigenous, Black, newcomer, immigrant/refugee and racialized survivors in order to enable them to access formal and institutional responses to gender-based violence.
What you might not know is that as an organization that's been delivering services for the last 40 years, we have been very careful to focus on specialized supports. As a result, we've heard from survivors that they understand most profoundly that, for us, it's very important to understand that racism exists and that survivors experience it.
I'd like to urge the committee, through your investigation, through your recommendations and through the actions that come out of this work, to respond to gender-based violence through working to end racism. We know it's challenging, but it is necessary.
Thank you.
I'd like to begin by acknowledging that this conversation is taking place across traditional territories of many indigenous nations. I am currently on the traditional territory of the Mississaugas of the New Credit, the Anishinabe, the Chippewa, the Haudenosaunee and the Wendat peoples, now home to diverse first nations, Inuit and Métis people.
My name is Farrah Khan. I've spent 25 years raising awareness about the intersections of gender-based violence inequity through education, policy, art creation and advocacy.
I am currently the executive director of Courage to Act, a national project to address and prevent gender-based violence at post-secondary schools through my company, Possibility Seeds. I also run a sexual assault and gender-based violence centre at Ryerson University.
I am really grateful to speak to this committee, because gender-based violence, specifically domestic violence, intimate partner violence, has been on my mind as I've witnessed time and time again survivors struggling under the pandemic. This is the second pandemic that we're living in.
We know that domestic violence, intimate partner violence, is rooted in gender inequality, power and privilege. It's a manifestation of patriarchal violence, and it intensely impacts the communities we live in.
One thing that isn't talked about enough is the fact that it affects young people in disproportionate ways, more than any other age cohort. What we know is that three in 10, or 29% of women between the ages of 15 to 24 years of age, have reported being subjected to intimate partner violence in the past 12 months. The rates are even higher for people within that age group who are part of Black, indigenous, racialized communities, women with disabilities and 2SLGBTQ people.
When we think about who is a domestic violence or intimate partner violence survivor, we oftentimes do not think of that 15- to 24-year-old age group, but we are missing out when we don't.
It's really important to note, too, that these conversations are binary and that trans qbe gender non-binary people experience a high rate of IPV and physical, sexual and psychological harm, at 1.7 times higher than cisgender people.
I agree with Angela, my colleague, who says that we need the national action plan to happen. We need it well resourced, and we need to move quickly, because this is a pandemic in and of itself. We need to act on the recommendations of the National Inquiry into Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls and the Truth and Reconciliation Commission of Canada.
We need to centre the voice of survivors and the work of grassroots movements and remember that we leave no one behind, because oftentimes when we think about who is a survivor, we focus on the needs of white cis women, and we know that's not true because across the country so many women, girls, men and boys are experiencing this type of violence. We can't leave behind trans abd gebder non-binary people or two-spirit folks, because no one deserves this.
We have to challenge the narrow definitions of what domestic violence is to ensure that no survivor who is experiencing something like forced marriage, stalking, harassment online or intimate images being shared is shut out of accessing services and feels like they cannot reach out for support.
We need disaggregated data that talks about race, gender and sexuality so we understand the scope and ways in which it impacts diverse communities.
I don't know about you, but I want action about housing. We have a huge unaffordable housing issue in Canada, and it breaks my heart when survivors say they cannot leave this violence; they have to live in it because there is nowhere for them to go.
We also have to address food insecurity when we know that it disproportionately affects women and that right now we are in a food crisis. People, again, will stay with an abuser because they can't afford to leave.
We also have to look at income security supports and social protection so that no one has to think, “If I have to pay my rent and pay my bills, there is no way I can leave this abusive situation.” We keep women, girls and people inside abusive relationships by not addressing income security.
We have to continue affordable child care, because people are able to afford to pay for their children to be in child care now so that they can get out of abusive relationships and stay out.
We need to provide grants, not loans, to post-secondary students, to ensure that they are able to go to school and not feel that they're reliant on abusive family members, community members or partners to address the needs they have for education.
I would also state, implement Keira's law. That child should never have been killed, and a private member's bill that would expand judicial education to do good seminars on intimate partner violence and coercive control needs to go forward.
I say, too, that the last piece that we need to address is the criminalization of intimate partner violence survivors. Just this past month, Tanner Brass was found dead hours after police arrested his mother, Kyla Frenchman, when she argued with them about her son's safety. The boy's father, Kaij Brass, was charged with second-degree murder.
The police could have prevented this, but instead they criminalized an indigenous mother, and her son was killed as a result. We need to do better. We need to stop criminalizing survivors, especially Black and indigenous survivors.
We also need the government to invest in nonpunitive approaches and divest from carceral approaches for addressing domestic violence. We can no longer look at the approaches that we have been taking, because they're not working. We need to change this.
Lastly, we need to invest in young people, because young people experience high rates of violence and they're not protected right now.
Thank you so much.
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Thank you so much for giving me this opportunity to speak. I appreciate the time you've given me. Thank you so much, each and every one of you from the standing committee, for listening and hearing the voices of the South Asian women I have been trying to represent through many years of work. This is 40 years of service within the South Asian community.
I'm not going to repeat a lot of what has already been said, because so much has been statistically informed and I do not wish to waste my time further on that. Rather, I'll focus on what we have found at the South Asian Women's Centre.
We were founded in 1982, and we have served over 900 women in abusive situations in the past three years. When I say abusive situations, I mean they have come; they have reported, and many of them don't even get out of that situation.
When we talk about intimate family violence or intimate partner violence, we understand that within the South Asian community, it reflects an issue between two spouses. Very often, women in the South Asian community will say that's what they were destined for. There's almost a fatalistic unwillingness to accept this issue or to even try to complain about it.
I have presented my paper, so I'm going to focus more on the impact of this pandemic and what we saw coming out of it.
SAWC would like to focus on the condition of South Asian women during COVID-19. We feel that the issue of recovery cannot be trivialized, as it will take years for women to get over the traumatic consequences of heightened abuse because of isolation and so many other factors. It's across all ages. The barriers that South Asian women across all ages and genders face include racism, language, death, grief, access to housing, health, transportation, income security, child care, immigration status, etc.
We always talk about this, but COVID-19 magnified these issues. This was apparent based on the numbers of women who sought help during this time. Our offices were open all through COVID, because women from the South Asian community have very unique needs. Many of them do not have access to computers and do not know how to read and write English. Therefore, we needed to make sure there was an ability to communicate with them, which is why we stayed open. We also took care of all the public health care needs, including hosting vaccination clinics.
Between April 2020 and December 2021, SAWC's seven counsellors received over 4,000 calls, and approximately 900 of them were related to abuse.
The focus of this brief is to look at the intersectionality between gender, poverty, mental health, trauma and immigration status. SAWC has been struggling with questions related to these issues coming out of COVID.
We know of at least 10 to 15 cases of women where spouses lost their employment and returned to their home country because they didn't know what else to do. Many of them were employed as taxi drivers, restaurant workers or even small business owners. Most of them lost everything during COVID. Men decided to return to their home countries, essentially deserting their spouses and children.
Many women are not fluent in English and have never had a job. SAWC spent hours filling out application forms to get women some financial help. SAWC's food bank saw an increase in clients, but the South Asian community, as well as the Daily Bread Food Bank, helped us to fulfill many needs. A couple of men who went back home even remarried, completely abandoning the women to fend for themselves, along with dependent children.
There is an intergenerational impact to this. Most of the women do not know how to use a computer and have no access to one, so the issue of online schooling was really tough for them.
Isolation did not allow for any kind of personal support system. SAWC received calls from the same women four to five times a day because of desperation.
SAWC also struggled with international students.
There are three main recommendations I want to make. One is for adequate and core funding to organizations that is more permanent—not like a contract agreement—and will be more core for several years so that we can actually look at the needs of BIPOC women to enable them to live free from abuse, have stable financial security and ensure proper housing, child care and employment.
The second is for senior BIPOC women to have access to long-term care support, adequate income support and housing support.
The third is for women who have been deserted by Canadian men in their home countries to be granted some temporary permanent residency status to enable them to seek justice.
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We have seen an erosion of the status of women from an intersectional point of view during COVID-19. We've seen an escalation in violence in a number of ways. That is borne out in terms of the ongoing and persistent numbers of indigenous women and girls who have gone missing, and also those who have been killed during the last two years.
As you mentioned, this is not a new problem. This is not something that hasn't already been identified quite comprehensively through the national action plan on missing and murdered indigenous women and girls. We as an organization were a party with standing during the inquiry process, and what is wonderful about that plan is that it is one of the most comprehensive documents that we have, I dare say, that looks at the root causes of violence across a number of different aspects, and also at solutions.
We have in front of us a platform, a remedy, a way to take action, and I think there are some important tweaks that can be made. One thing that's profoundly and deeply important right now, and it's something we're working on way out here in the west, in British Columbia, is the “by and for” approach to service delivery. We are resourcing, ensuring that there are the capacity and resources for indigenous-led, indigenous women-led organizations, in order to develop, design and deliver services that make sense for the communities in all of the complexity—because this is at the heart.
If we really understand that the making of Canada as a nation has bathed in a very specific kind of subjugation that is unique and horrifying in terms of the way that it's been targeted against indigenous women and girls, in order for us to remedy that, we must prioritize indigenous women-led solutions all across these lands. That includes of course Inuit and Métis, and first nations on reserve but also in urban settings, because as we know it's a very complicated landscape in which the violence occurs.
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I love all these questions.
On the first one, we need to ensure that they're learning from the age of zero. I have a two-year-old, and he knew about body autonomy pretty quickly. I need to affirm his right to choose that his body is his body, and that no one should touch him without consent. That starts at a young age. That doesn't stop. We can't stop children from learning, because they're going to learn in other ways. We need to give them comprehensive, good education on this.
In terms of intimate partner violence, it's making sure too that they're learning about what relationships could look like, not only those that they've seen at home, which sometimes are abusive and harmful. Just as Kripa said, we're talking about intimate partner violence, but it's also about family members, siblings, and how we treat each other with respect and care. I think it can start at a very early age, because violence starts at a very early age. If we don't give them an alternative, then all we're doing is saying, “Do you know what? You're on your own.” I never want to say that to a child, because children should be seen, heard and believed. If they don't have the right information, no one can hear them.
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Thank you, Madam Chair.
Thank you to the three witnesses, Ms. MacDougall, Ms. Khan and Ms. Sekhar, for their remarks today. They have given us insight into domestic violence, both violence against women and violence against gender diverse individuals.
My first question is for Ms. Khan, but I'd be happy to hear from the other two witnesses as well, should they wish to comment.
Ms. Khan, in 2017, the federal government announced Canada's strategy to prevent and address gender-based violence. Among other things, the strategy was designed to fill significant “gaps in supports for diverse populations, including: women and girls; Indigenous women and girls; LGBTQ2…and gender diverse individuals”.
In terms of the supports provided by organizations who serve these women, have the gaps been filled or closed at all? Has the situation improved since then? Have the government's actions been consistent with the objectives set out in the 2017 strategy?
Can you tell us where things stand? More studies have just been announced, and they are expected to go on for years.
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My name is Farrah, like “far away” or “far-out”.
The question was about how, in 2017, the federal government put forth a gender-based violence action plan, and whether things are getting better for the community at large. I think that's the short version of it.
I can say, as someone who has been on a GBV advisory committee for the federal government, that there are things that are much better under this government in terms of the fact that we are talking about it and it's open to the community. All of a sudden, violence against women organizations were welcomed to Parliament to have in-depth conversations about what we needed to do. All of a sudden, there was funding for organizations to talk about this as a systemic issue and not just as an issue that is something that happens between two people, as Angela has said.
We're also seeing intersectional conversations come forward, and funding that was put forward to the community to put together the national action plan, to the community to say what we needed and to the community to say, “This is what has to happen.”
For my program alone, in 2018 the federal government made a commitment to look at gender-based violence at post-secondary institutions. We were part of that work that was being done.
It has been a game-changer to actually be able to talk nationally about this issue, to come together with violence against women organizations, survivors and student leaders and ask, “What are we going to do to address this?”
Has it gotten better? No, because under the pandemic, it has been atrocious, the amount of violence that we are all seeing. In Ontario alone, there was an 84% increase in femicides alone. No, it's not getting better. It's actually devastating, what's going on right now.
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Thank you so much, Chair.
I would like to thank all the witnesses for being here today.
I wanted to start off with Madam MacDougall.
You spoke about the need for a whole-of-government approach and the importance of having an intersectional approach. This is certainly something that I have been pretty vocal about. We don't have one-size-fits-all solutions, and we have to take histories into consideration as well.
In the introduction to the “Colour of Violence” report that you'll be releasing soon, it was identified that the lack of access to culturally safe spaces creates barriers in accessing support, particularly for Black, indigenous, newcomer, immigrant, refugee and racialized survivors.
I would agree with that, even in the city of Winnipeg. Could you expand on that, please?
I so appreciate Treaty No. 1, of course, and the home of the Métis people, and I have had the privilege of being in that territory doing this kind of organizing.
What we haven't seen, and what you, I believe, have named, is that, historically, services have been based around the idea of the universal woman, which has prioritized women of privilege, particularly European women. If we understand that Canada is a settler colonial state, and that through European colonization there has been a stratification, which has positioned European women at the top and indigenous women at the bottom, and then other women layered throughout that stratification, this is really important for us to keep in mind when we're thinking about how we address violence and gender-based violence in communities that have been historically and contemporarily subjugated within that colonial framework, which is alive. This is a living history.
The buy-in for options, which is to resource communities of colour and indigenous communities and Black communities in order to take action, is a really useful approach. We know that indigenous people know how to respond to violence—
I'd like to thank the members of the Standing Committee on the Status of Women for the opportunity to contribute to your study on intimate partner and domestic violence.
The Alliance des maisons d'hébergement de 2e étape pour femmes et enfants victimes de violence conjugale is a provincial organization with 34 shelter members.
Today, I will be presenting solutions based on protection and support mechanisms for victims of intimate partner violence in relation to post-separation domestic violence, coercive control and consistent government support.
Before delving into the technical side of our recommendations, I want to take a few moments to share a real-life case with you. Any time legislative solutions are being considered, it is important to keep in mind that domestic violence affects real people in a very real way.
Exactly five years ago today, March 22, 2017, a young woman named Daphné Huard‑Boudreault was killed by her ex‑partner. After leaving a toxic relationship with that individual, Daphné was repeatedly harassed by him. She went to police, but unfortunately did not meet with a proper response, receiving inadequate support and advice. Alone, she went to retrieve her personal belongings at her ex‑partner's home, where police were supposed to meet her. Before they arrived, she was brutally murdered by her ex‑partner.
This tragic case highlights what can happen when victims do not receive adequate support. Although a protocol did exist, it was not implemented owing to a lack of training. A life was lost and many others are forever destroyed.
Today, on top of grieving for his daughter and dealing with a wound that will never heal, Daphné's father, Éric Boudreault, is fighting for justice and more support for victims. With great generosity, he has allowed us to read you an excerpt of his message to his daughter Daphné.
Today, my sadness must contend with frustration and anger. Five years later, I am more than convinced that you were abandoned, but unfortunately I cannot abandon this fight. I will rest later because the systemic normalization of domestic violence is more real than ever and must stop. The fight is just beginning, and I am counting on you to hold me up, as you always have.
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Thank you, Madam Chair and the Standing Committee on the Status of Women, for inviting Jamie Taras of the BC Lions football club and me to present on the importance of engaging boys and men in our national gender-based violence strategy.
I'm Ninu Kang, executive director of the Ending Violence Association of BC, and I am calling from the unceded, ancestral and traditional territory of the Musqueam, Squamish and Tsleil-Waututh Nations.
EVA BC is a provincial association working together with nearly 300 member programs to provide frontline support services across B.C. to end gender-based violence, harassment and hate. Additionally, we provide cross-sectoral supports by bringing community together, and we deliver prevention programs by engaging boys and men through our internationally recognized and award-winning program, Be More Than a Bystander, to break the silence on gender-based violence. It's a partnership with the BC Lions football club, which Jamie will also speak to in a minute.
Why is engaging boys and men through the Be More Than a Bystander program so important? Well, we know from previous panellists that intimate partner violence represents 26% of all violent crimes that come to the attention of law enforcement. We also know that sexual assault is the most under-reported of all crimes—less than 5%. One in three women is sexually assaulted in her lifetime, and 66% of female sexual assault victims and survivors are under the age of 24.
You can see that raising awareness on gender-based violence, and providing simple tools to boys and men to intervene and respond to various forms of gender-based violence, is critical. It's empowering boys and men to be part of the solution instead of being part of the problem.
Gender-based violence has been seen as a women's issue, and we raise our hands to all the women who came before us, who fought the fight, and who influenced the policies, systems and structures we have today. However, there is a critical resource we left untapped: men who are ready and willing to stand up next to women to end gender-based violence.
In 2011, EVA BC approached the BC Lions to partner with us and join us in the work to end gender-based violence. We worked with a male educator named Jackson Katz, who argues that while women have been at the forefront of this work, it is not a women's issue. In fact, he argues that this is a men's issue.
The approach really resonated with us and, together with the BC Lions football club, we developed the Be More Than a Bystander program. The program utilizes professional sports icons—BC Lions football players—who go into high schools with anti-violence workers to speak to thousands of boys and girls to raise awareness to end gender-based violence.
The program also implemented a province-wide promotion and awareness strategy, utilizing TV, radio, social media, game-day ads and other media to promote the Be More Than a Bystander message to Lions fans and followers throughout our province.
I'm going to send it over to Jamie to talk more about the BC Lions experience.
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Thank you, Madam Chair, and thank you, Ninu. It's an honour and a privilege to be here today.
Before I start, I want to recognize the true heroes on this call: all of the women who have dedicated their lives to making our society safer when it comes to gender-based violence. Thank you sincerely for your efforts.
For those of you who don't know, the BC Lions football club is a professional football team that competes in the CFL. The only reason we entered this arena is that we were asked to help. Gender-based violence is a complex, challenging and difficult reality, and, well, we play football.
I remember that when we first discussed getting involved with our leadership team, I expressed concerns about how our own organization's reputation might be at risk of skeletons coming out of the closet, or of current players or coaches having an incident and the press jumping all over us, dragging the BC Lions' good name through the mud. However, it was our head coach at the time, the legendary Wally Buono, who stood up and stated emphatically, “We should do this because it's the right thing to do. Our community has a problem. They've asked for our help, so let's do our best to give it.”
It turns out that Wally had experienced domestic violence in his own home growing up, and had to intervene on behalf of his mother. He went on to say that if we have challenges within our organization, we will deal with them. We won't hide from them. We will do what's right. So we took a giant leap forward alongside our partner, EVA BC, and launched the Be More Than a Bystander program.
Over the past 11 years, we have visited many locations throughout our beautiful province, teaching high school students about gender-based violence, sharing with them the tools to safely intervene, and ultimately encouraging them to be more than a bystander and break the silence on gender-based violence. It's safe to say the program has been a success. The silence has been broken, and the dialogue about this topic has been embraced by the students we have visited.
From an organizational perspective, we are among the first professional sports leagues to adopt a gender-based violence policy.
Is my time up here?
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Good afternoon. I'm Josie Nepinak, executive director for the Awo Taan Healing Lodge. I come to you this afternoon from beautiful Moh'kinsstis in the Treaty 7 territory, also known as Calgary, Alberta.
I'd like to tell you a bit about the Awo Taan Healing Lodge. For 32 years we have provided services to indigenous women and their families, as well as to immigrant women and settled Canadians. We've been doing this business for more than 30 years.
However, our framework is quite unique and different, I would say, from mainstream emergency women's shelters. We centre the elders' knowledge and wisdom within our practice framework, and that is around the traditional teachings of the diverse indigenous people who live in Calgary as well as access to the medicines that are part of who we are as spirit. Also, we take multi-generational families into the emergency shelter; we have grandmothers with their grandchildren, grandmothers, daughters, grandchildren and aunties. We bring in the whole family, whereas other mainstream shelters don't have that practice. However, it is indicative of the family unit within our indigenous communities.
A program that we're currently working on is called reconciliation and healing from trauma and violence, an indigenous healing and wellness framework as a promising practice for indigenous survivors and their families, and this program is now in its third year based on an evaluation of the women who come into the emergency shelter. Through surveys, storytelling and various activities, we talk to them about what they need in terms of support and services, and one of the biggest things they say is that sense of community and the building of community. When they come into a service area, they would like to see people who look like them—they want to see the dark hair, the brown eyes—they want people with a common experience, because they're often feeling that they have been judged over and over multiple times because of who they are; they're feeling not welcome or that perhaps this is not the right place for them; they're wondering if they'll get what they need here.
What we do with that is we employ an indigenous framework and storytelling lens to the research that we do. We hope that this work that we're currently conducting will become a blueprint model for other emergency shelters, not necessarily specific to but for those who serve indigenous women across the country.
The other project that we are just launching at this moment is what we call reclaiming power and place, which is co-developing distinctions-based principles of engagement with families of missing and murdered indigenous women and girls. We're doing this in Calgary with the Calgary Police Service, with whom we've had conversations about coming together and talking about when there is a missing or murdered loved one, how do we work with families in such a way that families are feeling respected, are feeling listened to, and so that there is integrity in the investigation?
I will tell you, there are at least seven families in Calgary that are still waiting for answers from the police regarding the violent death of their loved one. In this project over the next year we will have engagement sessions with Calgary Police Service, indigenous community elders, survivors and allies to talk about what this communication protocol might look like. We understand that there are processes that the police service have in terms of their investigation, but how do we as families of MMIW wish to proceed with those conversations, and what is it that we need? Quite often, for families, as you're well aware from the national inquiry as well as the provincial recommendations we just did, the communication and the relationship with the police is the most stressful and seen as the most racist experience that indigenous families have with the process.
We hope to develop a culturally safe engagement strategy and protocols with families of MMIW. We hope to co-develop an engagement and evaluation tool with them. At the end of the day, we want protocols to have that respectful interaction.
The other thing I want to say, because I know that my time is quickly running out, is that there are often nice words attached to the experiences of indigenous women, such as gender-based violence. In my language, which is Anishinabe, I don't know that there is such a word as “gender”. I think about family violence and where family violence comes from. In an indigenous community—you've heard this—it comes from genocide, paternalistic policies that exist around indigenous women and families, the destruction of families, and racism. These together—
I'm so sorry.
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You asked Jamie earlier about the success of this program. It's the model that we have developed. This model is a true partnership between the BC Lions and a women-serving, women-centred organization. It's about working with men who are really committed to standing next to us, as women.
When I think about that program and the new players.... We train them. Jamie and I just finished a training with a new cohort of BC Lions. They're now trained to go into the schools. We feel that the young people are looking up to these sports icons. We have an anti-violence worker there with them. If any disclosures come up, we have supports in place. In the back end, we also really work closely with the school and the school counsellors to ensure that when we're in and out of there in that way, there's capacity within those schools to continue to support the young people.
When I think about engaging with young people, the other very significant part of this program is that we do not demonize boys and men. Often, when we look at the gender-based violence issue, it has kind of put women and men or girls and boys on the opposite sides of the spectrum. Because of the fact that we've needed to address this very challenging issue, we've had to really centre on survivors. This is an opportunity to prevent us from having to intervene when violence actually happens.
These are young boys who see men standing and talking about gender-based violence. They're looking up to them. They're creating vocabulary. They're creating simple tools for how to intervene without it being something super-comprehensive.
We want this to become part of their wiring so they know that when they see something, they're going to step in and feel empowered to do something. We leave them with very simple tools in this program.
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Thank you, Madam Chair.
Thank you to the witnesses, Ms. Lemeltier, Ms. Pontel, Ms. Nepinak, Ms. Kang and Mr. Taras, for taking the time to speak with us today. We are gaining a lot of insight into an important problem.
My first question is for Ms. Lemeltier, of the Alliance des maisons d'hébergement de 2e étape pour femmes et enfants victimes de violence conjugale.
Ms. Lemeltier, you talked about an important tool in addressing domestic violence, the electronic bracelet. You mention it in your brief to the Quebec National Assembly's Committee on Institutions, as part of its examination of Bill 24.
More or less, this is what you say in your brief:
[A] number of recent government initiatives have clearly established the need to apply a specific lens when family dynamics involve domestic violence, in which one spouse (usually the father) exerts coercive control over the other spouse (the mother) and by extension the children. Coercive control involves a dynamic of control and domination within a relationship between intimate partners where the abuser increases the number of attacks to gain total control over the victim, completely inhibiting the victim's freedom to be and act as they wish.
Can you elaborate on that statement, Ms. Lemeltier?
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Thank you for the question.
Coercive control is a very important topic that we wanted to address.
I'll give you a very real example.
I am also the director of a shelter that offers first and second stage emergency housing. This weekend, a woman housed in our first stage shelter went to a garage to have her tires changed, and the mechanic discovered a GPS tracker. Her ex‑spouse, from whom she had recently separated, put the tracker on to follow her every move. Imagine the panic this discovery caused. This woman, who was in a shelter with a confidential address, had her safety jeopardized.
With regard to coercive control, it is important to realize that domestic violence can be physical or sexual, but it can also take other forms, which are much more difficult to detect. It is necessary to offer training to all the stakeholders in the field so they can understand that, even if the woman does not have a black eye, she is still a victim of domestic violence.
Women often go to second-stage housing a few months after a separation, and one might think that domestic violence stops at that point. Instead, it takes another form, called post-separation spousal abuse. This violence can manifest in many ways, including harassment on social networks, maintaining financial control, retaining a woman's immigration documents or denying supervised right of access, which impacts children's safety. Control continues and increases over time. The time after a separation is the most dangerous for women and, I repeat, for children.
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Thank you so much, Chair.
The first questions I want to ask are for Madam Nepinak. It's a pleasure to have you here. I know your son, Chief Nepinak, very well, and he always speaks so highly of you and of the work you've done for so long on ending violence against indigenous women and girls.
I want to focus specifically on police. You spoke about a distrust between police and indigenous people, and I think it's for good reason. I'm going to give a couple of examples and I want you to answer how you think we need to mend the relationship. The National Inquiry into Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls certainly provided calls for justice.
Eishia Hudson in Winnipeg was shot dead by police. There's currently an inquest. On Wet'suwet'en territory, we saw two RCMP officers with a guard dog, a chainsaw and an axe take down a door on the other side of which were two unarmed indigenous women.
One of the most horrific and disgusting acts of police abuse of power was actually in northern Manitoba, with former RCMP officer Theriault. An article says, “Theriault and another constable had arrested the woman at a party and placed her in a cell until she sobered up. Six hours after she was brought in, Theriault returned to the detachment out of uniform and asked for her to be released into his care”, which he was allowed to do by the supervising officer, who reportedly said, “You arrested her, you can do whatever the f--- you want to do.”
I don't know if I have the quote right, but it's hard to forget. It was something to that effect.
So there are real reasons why there's mistrust. It's not hysteria. It goes beyond stereotypes. This relationship is severely, severely tainted.
What kinds of steps need to be taken to improve the relationship, to ensure that should indigenous women and girls and gender-diverse people have involvement with police, not only will the relationship be amended but their safety will be ensured?
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The relationship we currently have with the police is severely fractured, and the atrocities that are happening to indigenous women within police services across the country are, in my opinion, an epidemic requiring immediate attention from the policy-makers and the legislators so that those actions are stopped immediately.
I think police services in this country have made indigenous women disposable. The very fact that the police have it in their power to take the lives of indigenous women and young indigenous girls as well.... We have heard of police officers raping and impregnating young indigenous women, and we've heard stories at the national inquiry of indigenous women being stopped on the highway and raped by police officers.
In my opinion this system needs to be dismantled and rebuilt from the bottom up, so that safe spaces for indigenous women are built in.
There is a model in, I believe, South America in which there are police stations run by police women only. These police stations don't look like police offices. They look like daycare centres. You walk in and the office is occupied by police officers, women who are dressed in street clothing, but there is a play area as well for children to be looked after and nurtured while the woman is in a safe place to tell her story about an incident of violence that happened to her.
We need to change the way we're thinking about policing and indigenous people in this country. The genocide must stop. You cannot imagine the colonial violence perpetuated by police in this country unless you have experienced it. Most folks who have privilege cannot fathom that this actually happens in the communities. As a child, I had to run away from police officers because they were going to take us, and they became known as “those who take us away”. That is certainly still the case today, almost 60 years from the day I first went into the residential school, so we must do this in a better way. As I say, let's dismantle and let's build from the ground up—
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Absolutely. Thank you so much.
I think we saw there, with Ms. Pontel's little daughter coming over, why we need to do such important work like this.
On behalf of the committee, I would really like to thank Sabrina, Maud, Josie, Jamie and Ninu for being part of this great discussion today. If you could log off, that would be fantastic. I really appreciate your coming and providing your testimony.
In seconds, once everybody is logged off, we will be going through some committee business.
I'm seeing all the great faces on here, so fantastic.
I have advised some of the vice-chairs on this. We want to talk about destroying confidential documents. This is something I brought up to other people, and I'm looking to see if somebody is willing to move a motion on destroying these documents.
Leah, would you like....? Go ahead.
I'm sorry. I did read all of this, so we are receiving so many, and I'm sure all of you have had the opportunity to go through them, but considering the sensitive nature of the study on intimate partner violence in Canada, I was seeking the agreement we've just passed, so I really appreciate that.
We have one other situation here. A person who is going to be one of the witnesses has requested from the clerk that additional measures be taken for their security. As a survivor has requested that additional measures be taken to ensure confidentiality, the clerk will retain a paper copy of her brief in the office. Should members want to consult her brief, they may get in touch with the clerk.
Do I have the committee's agreement on this?
Some hon. members: Agreed.
The Chair: That's fantastic. There will be documentation available through the clerk, and Alexie will let you know what we need to do there.
As we continue on Friday, we're going to have another busy day. There will be some great groups coming. Keri Lewis from the Interval House of Ottawa will be here. Luke's Place support and resource centre for women and children will be here, with Pamela Cross. The Moose Hide Campaign will be here. Partage au Masculin and WoodGreen Community Services will be here.
Thank you very much. Do I see adjournment for the day? That's fantastic.